We must learn to let go, to give up, to make room for the things we have prayed for and desired.

Once there was a composer who usually does & saves his composition on a laptop 1 day,a friend came & ask to use the laptop, unfortunately his friend broke down the unit felt sorry for all his compositions might be lost, but he said boastfully, "don't worry pare, I've got back-ups" he tried to open his back-up files, but an error occurred "the disk is n0t formatted,formatting will lost all saved data, format anyway?" moral: "back-ups doesn't always work the same way, like in a relationship, if you really love someone,love only her without reservation for she's vulnerable. Care for her, value her 'coz when she's gone, you might lost her forever & any back-ups you have can't replace her worth in any sense"

When you love, you must not expect anything in return, for if you do, you're not loving but investing. If you love, you must prepare to accept pain, for if you expect happiness, you're not loving but using.

In a relationship, it's not difficult to use your brain over the heart. If you find yourself capable of getting involved with someone because you use your brain, it means one thing, you aren't in love with the person. Because when you love someone, it's almost impossible to control your heart and tell it to let the mind handle the relationship. And the same is also true that when you can't use your brain because the heart rules over, it means that you are definitely, positively in love. So good luck to both your brain and heart.